Monday, February 6, 2012

Atheisim in America

HERE is an interesting article on being an Atheist in America and the hardships non believers face every day. I read it and I read the comments. It hit me hard because of what I'm going through now. This sentence.."To dismiss this as no big deal would be to underestimate the role of churches in small-town America."..struck a real chord.

The small town where I live is in the bible belt. If you don't believe, they certainly won't lynch you. They aren't that uncivilized, but, you will suffer. I'm not going to mention all the nasty things the people of certain churches have done to me here, it doesn't matter. But, now, I have a child involved. I have a DHS department that is Christian and I am not. It's that simple. They know they can't take my grandchild out of my home based on my non religious beliefs, that wouldn't be lawful. But, I find it highly insulting to my intelligence and the constitution of the United States that god is brought up at every social services meeting. In fact, right on the front door of our Human Services office it clearly says, 'Christian Counseling Service.'

During the meetings, which are state worker meetings, I get to hear how the child's mother has joined a church. And the encouragement that comes from state workers about how positive that is. I sit there silently thinking about how bad people hide behind religion. I get asked if Lissa has any church activities at my house and I look them in the eye and say, no. Then I have to listen to social workers talk about how they teach Sunday school and how good that is for kids.

They know they can't bring up my beliefs, it's unlawful. But, they know how to sneak in theirs and expect that the whole table agrees with them. They are the one's who put the children back in an unsafe home and yes, I do believe it was religion related. And it didn't work. Jesus couldn't make the mother stop using meth and neglecting her children. Four times. Not to mention the previous DHS charges of neglect and abuse that occurred on her watch before the current mess even started. And I can't help but wonder, what will a judge say? Who's home will he think is better? An Atheist who walks a Pagan path and keeps the child safe, fed, clean, loved and happy and has complied with the state in every way? Or a mother who's had at least 5 strikes and keeps screwing up, but, goes to church now and talks a good game about her Jesus?

It's a small town. You think in this day and age people can't discriminate based on religion, but, I know better. I live it. This is the shit that makes non christians crazy. You can not tell someone what to believe, but, you can ruin their life because they don't think like you do. And they call it being a good christian. I call it control and brainwashing. It's evil and vile. It's easy to preach about rights when you aren't fighting for yours. When you aren't fighting a town full of these jesus freaks who have power. Power is a dangerous thing in the wrong hands, and so is religion.

And, no, spell check, I will not capitalize the words christian or god. They deserves no caps.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry, it must be so frustrating. I know I get frustrated when christians sneak their religion into places where it clearly doesn't belong. My former boss (who, thankfully, was laid off) was a holy roller. Funny, he was one of the sneakiest, meanest liars I ever had the displeasure to work with. Oddly, the only other in-your-face christian I had to deal with to any great extent cheated on his three wives and is now one of those creepy old men with the fake tan who hit on everybody and go on "swingers" vacations.

Anyhow, there is no way it should be legal for the social workers paid by the state you live in (and with YOUR tax money) should be allowed to force their weird christian beliefs on you. I can't believe this still goes on. Is this anything the ACLU would be interested in?

Dirty Disher said...

One thing I don't do is make waves. I keep my mouth shut and I'll wait to see if the judge is a fair and decent human. He didn't get to be a judge without knowing the law, so we'll see. Hopfully he has a bullshit detector, like Judge Judy.

Amber said...

Watching my best friend try to raise her daughter with Asbergers has opened my eyes to how much society expects people to just conform. Unfortunately, individuality is not encouraged.

Dirty Disher said...

Real life is not like a movie where the good guy wins in the end.

Frimmy said...

"A Gallup poll last year showed that, while 9 per cent of Americans would not vote for a Jewish presidential candidate, 22 per cent wouldn’t support a Mormon and 32 per cent would not vote for a gay or lesbian candidate, 49 per cent would refuse to back an atheist for president."

That is crazy.

Dirty Disher said...

I'm irritated today and thinking while I clean out the loft to further comply with the state. It's heavy work. I just keep complying. What the hell can you do, you know?

Miss Tia said...

yeah being a 'good christian' involves lying, manipulating, judging, if you don't believe like we do we will discriminate in subversive ways.....total bullshit...but that's iowa, small towns not just in iowa but all over....

look at that girl in RI who filed a lawsuit against her public high school to get a christian banner removed and she succeeded---well the 'good christians' started sending her DEATH THREATS....some 'christian' businesses refused to deliver flowers atheist organizations sent her....

yep....we have christian crusades happening right now in america, against atheists and people aren't really aware of it....and of course the 'christians' manipulate and claim THEY are having a war waged against them....

keep that shit in YOUR home, don't bring it out in public and keep it out of the government!!!

i'm so sorry you gotta deal with these people.....

Jane said...

As we know religious zealots are prepared to go to war. Look at the Middle East. And I'm willing to bet it's not so different in your case---just no physical bombs, all verbal!

For some reason I keep thinking about the movie The Children of the Corn. And that movie really scared me. I know there are people that religious out there. I'm sorry you have to put up with that bullshit just to keep your g/d safe.

CJ said...

Lets see, on one hand you have a loving, caring, moral, ethical non believing grandparent. On the other there is a meth head 'church going' mother. Yeah, I'll vote for gramma any day of the week, but then I was brought up in the Unitarian church where we were taught to accept everyone & their beliefs or nonbeliefs.

When they start on you about your beliefs & non church attendance... just start saying "a good christian should be all forgiving and all loving & accepting of everyone". Say it out loud & over and over. If they are true christians, they should accept us as part of their god's world of creation.

Melissa said...

What CJ said. Really.

They must be able to get their heads out of their asses (bibles) long enough to see how easy a decision it is.

When's the hearing?

Jane said...

I like CJ's comment. I would memorize it and repeat it over and over. And somewhere I might throw in the idea about seperation of church and state. But I do understand you have to watch what you say. When do you get to see the judge? Let's hope he/she has a better understanding of the law than they do. I'm always sending good vibes if that helps.

Dirty Disher said...

The court date is in March. It's not up to social services anymore. It's up to a family court judge. And I have to believe in his good sense.

islandgirl said...

I bought a children's bible for my grandson last Easter. I thought it would be nice to read him the stories before bed when he stayed overnight with me. Well, after reading through a few of them I was appalled. The theme to these stories was violence, unforgivness and hate.
Also the pictures were so graphic, showing Cain murdering Abel, the floods drowning many ppl, to name a few
I shut the book and never opened it again.
I'm not an athiest, but how can I guide my grandson to be a good christian when the manual towards being so hypocritical?

Dirty Disher said...

I teach Lis about the bible too. Not because I believe, which she knows I don't, but, because she should know some of the main points. I find the children's bible stories to be violent and inappropriate too. The images are disturbing. I feel bad for you. There are some good cartoon bible stories on You Tube, you have to watch them first to make sure they're all right for kids though.

Beth said...

My heart is with you and Lis.

Maybe this will make you giggle. My mom's family is from Jefferson and Whiting, Iowa. My maternal grandfather's mom, Alma, was born and raised in Iowa. She was widowed, and then remarried and divorced twice more...before that was seemly. She ended up outside Joshua Tree/Palm Springs with a little hotel and casino.

My other great grandmother used to wait for her SIL to come to town to get her liquor. They didn't talk about it, he just went and refilled everything. Mom tells me she'd say, "Mike, how about you get me a little more excitement?" while holding out her glass.

Not one of them set foot in church.

Unknown said...

if i was you id buy a cross and wear the fucking thing. your religious beliefs are private, its non of their ficking business. wear the cross because it will fuck with their heads while you can privately enjoy the blasphiney of it all!