The lazy fuckers in my life can pack up their psychological spoon, because this chick has eaten all the shit she's going to eat this week. I'll uncharacteristically eat a lot of shit for my granddaughter..a certain amount is expected...but, I will eat no more this week.~Takes a big drag off a Marlboro light~ Oh, yeah. I wouldn't be serving up any more shit if I was a lazy fucker. Not this week.
It's not cryptic. I'm just waiting for Lissa to get back from her first authorized overnight visit. No, I do not like.
ReplyDeleteOh boy.. I expect details later.
ReplyDeleteYou wouldn't believe the amount of bullshit I've heard this week. And the backhanded insults. Excuse me, buying a child school shoes when her's fell apart, is NOT spoiling her with presents. I'm sure you don't have the money for 'presents' when you get 3 times the amount I live on. And btw, high heeled strappy white sandals with rhinestones are not school shoes. I will also continue to 'spoil' her with that 'fancy juice in boxes' instead of polluted tap water. And I will not dole out punishments for things she did at someone else's house. I wasn't even there and she doesn't do those things here. I do not think Lunchable is supper. Lunchable is a snack. I will not send her to bed hungry because she didn't eat all her Lunchable. It is not funny to say "HA HA that'll teach her" when she forgets her lunch box and there is nothing on the school menu she will eat. She does not need life lessons..none of this is her fault. None of it. Lazy fucker forgets who is being watched and restricted here and why. It is not the child.
ReplyDeleteGood point. Sounds like lazy fucker is trying to spread the blame around. Lunchables are wonderful as a lunch on occasion. They're not a meal. They are a snack and no, sandals with heels are not appropriate for school. Lissa is happy and is probably more stable than she ever has been. Lazy fuckers need to be thankful she's being cared for by a loving grandmother instead of rotting in a fucking foster home.
ReplyDeleteThanks. Lazy fucker needs to stay her fat ass out of my bathroom too. Go home and spend 40 minutes in your own skank bathroom...cleaning it.
ReplyDeleteAnd the endless dirty psychological games. OMG. It's such an insult to my brain. It actually hurts my head to play dumb. But, I have to. Someday...someday. Maybe I'll live until the kid turns 18. Man, that will be SOME day.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you'll get custody and you can tell a lazy bitch off long before then. I know how it feels to suck it up for the sake of family. Thankfully I didn't have to do it to see a child. Unfortunately, sucking it up always made them think I was a pussy. EmoBoy will be 18 in a little over a year and then I will say whatever I want. And if they don't like it they can pretend I don't exist. Which is just what I want.
ReplyDeleteI have caretaker custody now, but, I have never once felt the need to be mean and say no, just because I have the power. I just bide my time. There is one social worker who sees through it all and she is above the ones who drink the koolaid.
ReplyDeleteYou're lucky. One year? I can't wait to read your blog on that day.
Lazy ass stupid cows will never change. They might play the game for awhile, but never ever change. Take care of Lissa, you are doing a good job with her. We can all see that she loves you & you her. At least she has one sane loving person in her life.
ReplyDeleteDD...keep on keeping on! It's what you do. Stand fast and give em hell.
ReplyDeleteI doubt I'll say much on that day. I'm able to vent about it to the husband and I don't have a real need to let it all out. What will change will be the lack of shit I put up with now. Although I put up with less and less as time goes by. No, from that day on I will just not deal with the ex-inlaws anymore. The kid is grown and my obligation to try to raise him cooperatively will end. I find I give less and less of a shit about getting along anymore. I don't know why I tried as hard as long as I did. What was I afraid of? That they wouldn't like me? They never liked me to begin with. They all like me even less as I grow into the old bitch I'm becoming. Good.
ReplyDeleteAm I the only one that cannot figure out what she was doing in the bathroom for 40 minutes?
ReplyDeleteI can never figure it out. Every fucking time. WTF?
ReplyDeleteShe's not getting high, right?
ReplyDeleteMaybe she was just sitting there and 'enjoying" the feeling of a clean bathroom.... a luxury she doesn't have at home cause she hasn't figured out that she NEEDS to clean it once in a while....
ReplyDeletePat you make sure that social worker who sees thru the crap sticks around Lissa's case... seems she's the only one who knows her job.
Nadine
I dunno what she does in there, but, it doesn't seem like she does what you're supposed to do in a bathroom. It creeps me out. Everything about her creeps me out and I haven't been able to say it. There's lots more. Maybe I'll get the balls to tell it. She can read here..if she paid her damn cable bill.
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