I just found out my father in law passed away. He'd had a hard time and went downhill fast after my sweet mother in law, Cleta passed awhile back. That's one of the last pictures of him with my daughter, Casey. Weldon Jones was such an exceptional man, there was nothing about him I didn't like. He was smart and kind and generous and had massive doses of good common sense. He was a hard worker and the best family man ever. What amazed me the most about Weldon is, he was pure of heart. You know how you can know someone for years and some people, very few people, are just good through and through? It doesn't happen very often, most people have a dark side, even good people, but, Weldon didn't. He was completely pure of heart with only good intentions even though he was a war veteran. He was a medic in the war and he knew and had seen things he didn't care to talk about, he preferred to talk about the weather and his garden and his massive antique collections. He could talk to anyone about anything and you never had an awkward silence with Weldon. He was just interesting and what people would call a true gentleman. Soft spoken with a great gentle laugh, I've never heard him raise his voice. He never needed too, people just naturally listened to him. He was really handsome too, before he got sick, and I always thought he never knew what a handsome man he was. He was kind of my hero and the reason I'm still a Jones. Jones is easier to spell and remember than my maiden name, and also, I adopted Weldon as my Daddy because he was the best one I ever knew. He was always there for me long after his son and I were divorced. He'd show up with his truck to help move me from place to place or haul something for me. I didn't even have to ask, he'd just shyly show up and do it, saying , "Aww, I was just passing by, it wasn't any trouble." Even recently. That's the just way he was. Weldon was one or those rare people who always put his money where his mouth was, if you know what I mean. He could walk the walk. I'm so sorry for my daughter, it seems she's had too many funerals lately, and this one is going to be a sad one. Rest in peace, Weldon Jones. Say hi to Cleta for me.Thursday, August 13, 2009
Rest In Peace, Weldon
I just found out my father in law passed away. He'd had a hard time and went downhill fast after my sweet mother in law, Cleta passed awhile back. That's one of the last pictures of him with my daughter, Casey. Weldon Jones was such an exceptional man, there was nothing about him I didn't like. He was smart and kind and generous and had massive doses of good common sense. He was a hard worker and the best family man ever. What amazed me the most about Weldon is, he was pure of heart. You know how you can know someone for years and some people, very few people, are just good through and through? It doesn't happen very often, most people have a dark side, even good people, but, Weldon didn't. He was completely pure of heart with only good intentions even though he was a war veteran. He was a medic in the war and he knew and had seen things he didn't care to talk about, he preferred to talk about the weather and his garden and his massive antique collections. He could talk to anyone about anything and you never had an awkward silence with Weldon. He was just interesting and what people would call a true gentleman. Soft spoken with a great gentle laugh, I've never heard him raise his voice. He never needed too, people just naturally listened to him. He was really handsome too, before he got sick, and I always thought he never knew what a handsome man he was. He was kind of my hero and the reason I'm still a Jones. Jones is easier to spell and remember than my maiden name, and also, I adopted Weldon as my Daddy because he was the best one I ever knew. He was always there for me long after his son and I were divorced. He'd show up with his truck to help move me from place to place or haul something for me. I didn't even have to ask, he'd just shyly show up and do it, saying , "Aww, I was just passing by, it wasn't any trouble." Even recently. That's the just way he was. Weldon was one or those rare people who always put his money where his mouth was, if you know what I mean. He could walk the walk. I'm so sorry for my daughter, it seems she's had too many funerals lately, and this one is going to be a sad one. Rest in peace, Weldon Jones. Say hi to Cleta for me.
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I'm so very sorry for your and Casey J's loss. He really sounds like a wonderful man. I've never known a man that was all around good through and through, they are all too few and far between. I bet he'd make an excellent grandpa, did Lissa get to know him at all?
Awww R.I.P. Mr. Jones!
I remember your lovely post about Cleta. It's nice that you liked your in-laws. Was your ex-husband as nice as his parents? Hope Casey is holding up ok. I'm sure Cleta and Eric were there to welcome him to the other side.
~ Jess
Yes, Lissa met them several times. She's not related to them, but, they never treated her any different and always asked about her.
My ex, David, is a nice guy, everyone likes him. He's found his partner in life, a nice guy named Dennis and they have an anitque business. They seem really happy. I love going to their sales.
Pat,
I'm sorry that you and your daughter have lost this lovely man.
It's nice to hear about the folks on your journey who brought light and love to it. With all the adventures you've had and experiences you've encountered and endured it makes me smile to see the warm and tender you surface. You are an enigma, bold yet mysterious, strong yet gentle.
It sounds like Weldon was a, "lantern carrier" for you and others. May all the light he shared and provided in this realm be with him in the next to guide and comfort him as travels his next path.
Pat, I'm so sorry for your loss. That photo you posted show him surrounded by that light...I know he's ok.
I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like he will be greatly missed by everyone that knew him. Your post is an excellent tribute and we should all hope to live our lives so the same might be said of us when we are gone.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Rest in peace, sir.
aww...he is handsome...I LOVE nice people. I wish there were more on Earth...When I pass I hope someone acknowledges me in a nice way like you have done him.
I am so sorry for your loss. The good ones always leave too early. Peace :)
Thank you all and I love "lantern carrier." That man always had a lantern or flashlight when you needed one. He had some kind of ESP thing that way.
So sorry to hear about your loss. What a lovely tribute.
Pat you deserved to have a soul like Weldon's in your life, after all the crap your morther put you through! I have met a few weldons in my life but they always die too soon but at least I had the honor of being touched by them , even if only briefly! You have a beauty for a daughter, her eyes express a good heart! Keep up the stregnth for the two of you in the coming days!
Ali
I'm sorry for your loss Pat. May your father in law rest in peace.
(your daughter is very pretty)
i am very sorry for Casey's and your loss...
Rest in Peace. Mr. Jones. Sounds like you were a wonderful Man.
Pat, sorry for your loss. (Hugs)
I am so sorry for your loss.
They taught me about real families and they'd have given you the shirts off their backs. My family is the enemy and will cheat you out of everything you have. So different.
Nissa, what a cute little boy in that picture.
Aww what a nice tribute indeed. I'm so sorry for your loss.
My MIL was just the same. Completely guileless and good hearted through and through. I am glad my son had enough time with her to have good memories.
I was sorry to read abour your loss Pat. I could tell by your words and your writing that he meant the world to you and that you will miss him dearly.
You are such an amazing women. Your strength, your attitude to life, and your acceptance of others are traits that I admire about you.
Take care.
crystal
Dear Pat my condolences for your loss.
Hugs to you and your daughter. Kiki
I am very sorry for your loss. Your tribute brought tears to my eyes - Weldon sounds like my grandmother, who I still miss to this day. I am glad you and Casey had the chance to be with him in this life.
Pat,
I didn't even know him, but I am crying a little reading your story. It reminds me of my FIL and how he was such a great guy too. He went out and was mowing the neighbor's lawn for her and died of a heart attack. He would do anything for anyone and stick up for everybody. I hope Weldon is in a happier place and I'm sorry for you and your daughter.
Aww, that's so sad. Sounds like a wonderful person and you were lucky to have him in your life.
I know the kind of person you are talking about. I know a couple people like that. They amaze me and I wish I was more like them.
K
What a terrific way to live one's life and what an astounding legacy leave behind. The positive impact one has on the lives of others is the best way I know to measure success and I believe by this, and every other definition, Weldon led a most successful life. My maternal Grandmother (still living) and Grandfather (deceased) have the same qualities as Weldon; fascinating individuals without an ounce of falseness or meanness. I still say to my Grandmother that I hope to grow up to be just like her.
May Weldon's journey through the veil to the Summerland be swift and sure, and may he find all he loves awaiting him there.
BB
♥Kat
So beautiful and so sad all at once. But it does make me happy to know you have such nice memories of your in-laws. Those will always stay with you.
I want to thank you all as well for all your beautiful and wonderful words. He was everything my mother said. My grandpa would have done anything for anyone, no matter if they needed money, help around the farm, a job, advice... etc.. He was there for you. I am happy to think of him now, not in pain. Not in pain from the cancer nor the broken heart. It is true... you can die from a broken heart. Him and his story of love and generousity will be remembered forever in my mind. Thank you all again for your words and kindness.
CaseyJ.
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