Monday, December 21, 2009

Bayou Jane needs your thoughts and energy

One of our community members here needs us now. Bayou Jane's husband, Michael has passed away. They have been together for 35 years. My heart goes out to you Bayou and if there is anything you need, you let me know.

73 comments:

MuserMommyinPA said...

Please accept my deepest sympathies on your loss. Positive thoughts, energy and hugs are coming your way.

Alyssa said...

Positive thoughts and big hugs from me also.

Melissa said...

You are in my thoughts. I am sorry for your loss.

MonicaW42 said...

I am very sorry for your loss and will keep you in my thoughts.

Anonymous said...

This is so sad. I am so sorry Bayou Jane. I always enjoy your comments and input here. My thoughts will be with you this sad & difficult day. Take care. xo
roxanne

Mich said...

I can't find the right words... I can't even imagine what you must be going through. I am so sorry for your loss.

Frimmy said...

So sorry for your loss. Sending positive thoughts and comforting hugs.

Corina said...

oh no! I am so sorry for your loss. :( My thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours.... {{{HUGS}}}

Heidi said...

I am so sorry for the loss of your best friend.

Brig said...

I can't even begin to imagine how you feel. Healing thoughts and gentle hugs being sent your way.

Nissa said...

Jane I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. You and your family are in my thoughts.

miss tia said...

I am so so sorry for your loss Bayou Jane. You are in my thoughts today and for the upcoming days. Sending energy to you.

BIG HUGS!

Tia

Anonymous said...

My deepest and most sincere sympathies to you Jane..... I'm so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts.

Daphne

Anonymous said...

Jane, so very sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers of peace and love for you and your family. Remember the good, eventually the sadness will ease and you will always have his love, and he will always have yours.

iambriezy said...

I'm so sorry Bayou Jane. May the love of your family and friends hold you up and remind you that you're not alone. Hugs to you.

Anonymous said...

Bayou Jane,
Words don't come easy at a time like this, but please know that my heartfelt thoughts are with you and your family.

Deb

Unknown said...

bayou jane. My deepest sympathy goes out to you. I'm so sorry this happened. I wish that I could just give you a hug. Also to take the pain away from you. please accept my thoughts, prayers, friendship and energy. (BIG HUG) BAYOU.. we all care for you very much.

Dianew said...

Wrapping my arms tightly around you ((( HUGS ))). I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

BH said...

I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept this hug {{{{hug}}}} and positive energy from someone in VA who is thinking about you.

I can B said...

May you find peace and love in the memories you cherish. Big Hugs.

Heather from PNW said...

Deepest condolences Bayou Jane. There are never the right words to say, but know that there are many of us who are sending our prayers and energy to you and your family.

Christina said...

Bayou Jane, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
May you be surrounded with the love and care of family and friends to help you through this time of sorrow.

lisa k. said...

I am so sorry for your loss Bayou Jane. ((HUGS))

Anonymous said...

Dear Jane I'm so sorry for your loss my
deepest sympathies to you and your family
at this unfortunate time. I bid you peace. Kiki

Theresa in Texas said...

You are in my thoughts Bayou Jane. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

Anonymous said...

Sending hugs, Bayou Jane, thinking of you this week.

10G (Gina)

Kylie's Mom said...

I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

Anonymous said...

I am lighting a candle for you Bayou Jane and your family. Here's to finding peace. ((((((Bayou Jane)))))

escrow

Bohemianmoon said...

Sending prayers and massive hugs to you at this trying time >>>>>>>>>>

If there is anything I can do, even just lending an ear, please do not hesitate to email me!

Alison said...

Bayou Jane, I am so sorry.

A-Gran said...

Bayou Jane, I am so very, very sorry to hear that your husband is gone.

Peg said...

Bayou Jane, please accept my deepest sympathies. I've been with my husband 36 years. I can't even imagine the pain in your heart right now. I know there is nothing we can say that will ease that pain. Just know that you are in our thoughts during this difficult time.

PennMommy said...

Can we set up a paypal acct to help cover the coffin?

Brigadoon said...

I will pitch in. Let me know.

Jenna said...

Brig,

You are SO KIND!

Your pal,
JR

Sole` said...

I'm sorry for your loss Jane. Keeping you in my thoughts and sending positive energy your way.

Nina said...

My thoughts are with you Bayou Jane. May healing find you.

Unknown said...

I'm so sorry, Jane. I can't even imagine the pain you are going through. I wish you peace and I have you in my thoughts. (((HUGS)))

Bayou Jane said...

My son and I wish to thank you all for your kind comments and offers. It is very appreciated. It was Michael's wishes to be cremated so we will have a memorial for him on his birthday (Jan,12th) instead of a wake. He has 6 brothers and sisters and I didn't want to make a sad Christmas for them and their families.
Wishing everyone Happy Holidays and hoping you can be with the ones you love!

Vicki said...

Jane, Hugs and prayers to you and your Family.

Dirty Disher said...

Bayou, I'm sure that's what Michael would have wanted. You are in my thoughts.

Rest in peace, Michael.

Unknown said...

The trolls just don't get it do they? Someone just lost her partner in life, it's very CHEAP of them to start with jokes about coffins here. I know that's not Brig posting.

I'm sorry, Jane they can't even step away when there's grieve.

Dirty Disher said...

I too it off, and several worse ones. It makes me so sad to think people are that low.

Casper said...

Jane,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

connie45 said...

Sending you warm hugs and my deepes sympathies. Iam so sorry for your loss.

CJ said...

So sorry to hear of your loss. Comforting thoughts being sent your way.

Brig said...

You are right Meissa, not me. I am always logged in and with an avatar. Sorry this is happening.

Beth said...

Dear Jane,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I don't know you, but am sending alot of hugs and strength to you and your son....such a terrible thing to happen. I send you my best, and know that with friends like these, you'll be able to face this.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family at this time.
Beth in Seville.

Cut On The Diagonal said...

Checking in on my cell.... Bayou Jane, I am so sorry. Sending all prayers & healing thoughts out to you and your family.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. Just know that i am thinking of you.

Deb

with3love said...

I cannot begin to imagine what you're going through, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Healing thoughts your way...

Corina 1.0 said...

Jane, my thoughts are with you and your son. I also can't imagine how much this hurts, but I am sending healing, helping thoughts of peace to you and your son.

Coyote said...

BJ, I am SO sorry for your loss. I know how much it hurts to lose a soul mate. Be easy on yourself. You never completely heal, but you will arrive in a spot where you accept what is, but it's a long road.

One thing that helped me get through, after the initial couple of, besides family and friends, was to watch movie after movie. If I could take my mind off grief for just a couple of minutes, I rested my mind.

Again, I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was something I could do, but having been there, there really is not too much one can do except be here to listen. If you need to talk: coyote-38609@mypacks.net

Just leave a note, here, that you've emailed me. My thoughts are with you.

valle said...

I hate it when someone is hurting.Very sorry for your loss.

Maureen said...

I'd like to offer my condolences to you and your family. What an awful thing to happen, many thoughts and prayers will be with you.

PeggyAnn said...

So sorry for your loss. Sending positive energy your way...

Anonymous said...

Bayou Jane, I don't even have the words to accurately tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I hope you are able to find strength in your son, family, friends and all of us here. I cannot imagine the pain of losing your partner in life. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

Anonymous said...

I'm so very to hear about your loss. My sister lost her husband suddenly after 25 years and I can't even begin the imagine the pain you must be feeling. I will send lots of positive energy your way.

I wish there were simple words that can take the pain away for even a second. I do hope there is a least a small amount of comfort in knowing we all care deeply.

Hugs,
Elaine

Lauren said...

Sorry for your loss Bayou Jane.
(((Bayou Jane)))

Nattie said...

I'm so sad to read this after being too busy to visit here for the past couple of days. I remember you posting that Michael had just been diagnosed with a problem, but had hoped it was manageable.

I'm deeply sorry for your loss, Bayou Jane. I send my best to you and your family.

Nattie said...

I'm so sad to read this after being too busy to visit here for the past couple of days. I remember you posting that Michael had just been diagnosed with a problem, but had hoped it was manageable.

I'm deeply sorry for your loss, Bayou Jane. I send my best to you and your family.

Mabel Leaf said...

Bayou Jane,I can't imagine such a terrible loss. You will be in my thoughts.

Anonymous said...

Please know that so many of us are thinking of you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss, Bayou Jane. I remember you mentioning he had new dementia. You have a whole community here that cares for you, lean on us.
Sprite

Julie said...

Bayou Jane,

I am sorry to hear of your loss.

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Julie

10doll said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you & your family in my thoughts & prayers.

Anonymous said...

My prayers and thoughts are with you. I am deeply sorry for your loss.

10doll said...

I'm giving you (((((BIG HUGS))))) & hoping you might pass it on to your family members.

coffeebean said...

I am so sorry. Hoping that you can find some peace in this difficult time. ((((hugs))))

Silvia said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences.

steph said...

Bajou Jane,

Please accept my deepest sympathies on the loss of your dear husband. You're in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

I hope you feel the strength we're all sending your way and know we're here to support you and your family during this difficult time.

TVsnark said...

So sorry, Jane.
I have no words but I'm sending my love.

SharnaPax said...

Jane, I am so sorry. I cannot even imagine how hard this must be. He was your love.

I've bound a candle and lit it. My energies to you.

Know that he is still with you, just in a different way. He's there. Love survives everything.

Anonymous said...

So incredibly sorry for your loss...