i know i live in the land of misfit toys, but some one whom i was only NICE too got some idea last year i called the fire dept. on a bonfire they had---i did not and i didn't even KNOW they were having a bonfire---and i just walked back from another neighbors and i don't even walk on her fucking sidewalk i walk in the street and she's in her backyard, drunk as always, and i heard someone ask who i was and she said "miss tia who starts shit and talks about everyone on the internet and we need to burn her house down".....
what the goddamn fuck?!?!?! and no, this is NOT insane neighbor.....but obviously this woman isn't very fucking sane.....and no....never mentioned her on the internet either....
last night i caught my husband chatting with women on an online dating service.i knew i was gonna catch him sooner or later.he even had a secret e-mail all set-up, cocksucker. claims he never actually met up with anyone but i know he's lying.i've been sick to my stomach for the last 24 hours cause of this.don't know what i'm gonna do.have a 3year old and 4month old.where in the fuck am i gonna go?he got on his knees and begged for forgivenness, deleted his profile, email blah blah. kids are asleep,asshole's asleep.thank god mad men's coming on in ten minutes.maybe betty's got some good advice for me. whatever,felt good to get that out.thanks dd,your blog is always such a c omfort to me.
he's probably only sorry he got caught.....if he doesn't agree to marriage counseling, do as dear abby says and go without him!!! and dear abby also always recommends you get tested for STDs.....you can't take his word for anything....
how long has he been doing that shit?? i'd like to personally sever his testicles from his body.....
you know you got support here!! also talk to an attorney....back of the hard drive---even a deleted profile can be 'found'....copy the history....scour that puter for information and print it all out!!!
Aww, sorry to hear about your situation anon. I hope he is genuine in his repentance, but miss tia is right, definitely get yourself checked out and protect yourself and your kids and talk to someone.
Miss Tia you have horrible insane neighbors. DD does too...seems to be the norm. That's no comfort, I know.
anon - I would not venture to give you advice but if it were me I would figure out if I was DONE with him and if I was I would NOT tell him that until I had every one of my ducks in a row. Where I was going to go, enough $ to make it happen, legal assistance ready to roll etc. I agree, thank goodness for DD's! In the meantime, (((hug))) to you.
uh, and i did WHAT this person??? i walked down the street and so it's valid to threaten to burn down my house???....i never called the fire dept. on her and all i did today WAS WALK DOWN THE FUCKING PUBLIC STREET....and lets see....the woman who was abusing her kids, that was my fault?? the insane neighbor faking illesses, that's my fault??? the woman who pees and shits publicly, that's my fault???
YOU anon-a-mouse 12:18 are a full of shit trash talker....use your brain to think instead of sit on it....
Wish I had some great words of wisdom for you guys concerning crazy neighbors and lousy husbands. Just wanted you to know that I am out here and thinking of you.
anon-a-fuck that's great you can spell eloquently.....unfortunately, i speak the truth.....i do wish this was some bizarre sitcom but it's not, it's my life.....and there are many people who can verify everything i say...in some cases there's police reports, reports to child services, etc....
i'm not insane, i have PTSD, which is an anxiety condition....
some days i can be nice....but i sure in the fuck won't be nice to a piece of shit shit talking such as yourself.....hiding behind anon-a-mouse and taking advantage because DD can't really be online to delete your shit....
talk your shit....make ya feel better??? Why are you here anyway? just to start shit??? why don't you go to another site where your shit is welcomed?? oh that's right....you are a troll....
oh and anon who can spell 'eloquently', i have a pretty good idea who you are.....you can't hide your writing style very good....might wanna work on that....
point out what?? that i have fucked up neighbors, uh DUH!!.....and gee, some of us are poor....but that might be hard for you to comprehend....you sure liked to brag about your neighborhood and house....i bet 80% of what you use to write here was a lie....
oh and miss tia IS my real name....can you understand that??
you should try for counseling before you do anything drastic. Having young children in this economy is stressful...get yourself tested, stop having sex with him, and get some therapy. Don't do anything drastic. Men have evolved to fuck around--it's just their nature. Take some time to think about it, talk to a professional and then make a decision. Just try to remain calm for the sake of your kids.
anon 11:51 here, thankyou everyone for your kind words and advice.you have no idea how they really do help.wont sleep a wink tonight again, that's for sure. def gonna get tested for std's. i can't believe this is happening to me, i am so ashamed:'( sorry asshole cocksucker husband if i cant be your personal sex goddess right now.i'm trying to breastfeed a demanding four month oldand clean-up and chase after a crazy 3 year old.he said he would go to counseling but i don't know. gotta talk to a lawyer. gotta line-up all my ducks as nancyb said. wow, this is really theraputic miss tia sorry about your crazy assed neighbours and anon 12:18: fuck-off! everyone else thankyou.
hmmmm.....for someone who proclaims to have class:
you make fun of my anxiety condition you call me names you proclaim to know my politics you proclaim to know my views on welfare you make fun of my real name--whilst hiding behind anon-a-mouse and you like to play armchair shrink...
yeah...i sure wanna emulate you....i am now 95% sure i know who you are....claim you never posted here....just another lie...
just stop posting, eh? just leave me alone, eh? oh that's right, you can't; because you feel superior and wanna let everyone know....
anon 1:24---definitely talk to a lawyer, even if you both go to counseling....that way you will know what to expect, etc....and depending what state you live in, some states will take most of the man's income for child support! and if he will go to cousenling, definitely go with him, even if you get divorced, it will help you be able to have a cordial relationship with him that will be beneficial to your children, because no matter what a louse he's been to you, he'll always be their father and in their lives...
HUGS!!! you know you got support here!!! (minus the trolls!!)
Oh Fuck Tia it's an insane Tea Bagger or probably an even more insane "Christian" conservative. Fuck this troll. You have friends here and don't owe this pig shit any explanation. Tia, if you think you know who this piece of shit is, please "out" them. I know I've seen that term "toodles" used by a toll before on blogs a lot of us are familiar with. FUCK OFF TROLL you're wasting your time.
something is wrong with the anonymous poster who is being so rude to Tia on this blog. I suggest to that poster that it start it's own blog, then we can visit it when we are bored. It can call the blog: "I have a penis where my brain should be." good bye anonymous poster--go have another box of wine.
Anon 11:51...I would allow your husband his one mistake. But I would also make sure he understands that's it! Any more and he would have to leave. I know that's easy for me to say and I don't know if I would really do it, but it seems like what I SHOULD do.
I just got out of the hospital yesterday for "unstable angina" ie. pre-heart attack, taking care of my crazy mother-in-law. I'm trying to rest, but have to go over there in a little bit to stay with her while my husband goes on an appt. with HIS dr...sigh. They diagnosed me as Ischemic Cardiomyopathy. By the way, I'm 45 years old..... Fucked up, huh? Gotta keep smiling, right?
Agree with everyone telling you to protect yourself with medical/ mental and legal knowledge to help. But don't forget the financial ... if it is at all possible, start stuffing back as much money as you can. Call it a "just in case" account. Don't put it in the bank, if all goes south ... he could get his hands on it. Keep it cash and hide it somewhere. Know times are hard for everyone right now, but even a few extra bucks could help.
where the fuck do you think i am admitting the things you said are true??? you are here bragging about your life, giving unsolicited rude advice and talking shit.....
and if your life is so fucking great why are you here??? seems to be pretty hollow and you seem very shallow....
someday you will need real friends and sure burned your bridges here....
Believe I have plenty of friends and if and when I need them they are there for me. I don't need to come to some blog and vent with a bunch of strangers. Sad really that you have no friends in the real world only your imaginery ones here on the Dirty Disher.
Good bye for now.....Miss Tia you may have the floor - I am still wwaiting for your so classy all caps FU.....I see it coming in 1....2.....
it's SAD that you come here to brag about your imaginary charmed life and try to impart troll wisdom such as that we shouldn't vent here or talk about things that bother us....and you have the right to do that because???????
you get deleted and you still come back and troll....because you became a troll....you had friends here and now for whatever reason you've decided to attack us.....
i have REAL friends here, thank you very much and i have REAL friends in real life.....
Ok - so I commented a handful of times throughout the year on some things that DD posted. I always posted anonymous and that makes everyone else who posts on here my friend? I have never had a conversation with any of you, never vented about my life etc ....That makes no sense at all.
You guys are ridiculous with "everyone who doesn't agree with us is a troll" mentality. Grow up. Oh no are you going to call me a "troll" again - oh please don't. it's so hurtful.
Honestly Good bye. Sorry if I hurt your feelings. You put yourself out there you open the door for critism. Sincerely I wish you all the best. Now I have things to do with my day...
we have disagreements all the time on here.....YOU are being judgmental and playing armchair psychologist....and you keep coming back after you've been deleted and when you even say you won't post anymore....you go on and on about your wonderful life and insult us, make fun of my disability, call me names and hide behind anon-a-mouse...
if that ain't a troll i dunno what is....but whatever.....keep posting your shit....
Oh, little troll baby. I'm glad your life is all sweetness and light.
I don't normally talk to trolls, but You are starting to piss me off, too. If you took a poll of all the posters on DD's I think you'd be surprised at how highly educated most of us are.
"Illnesses" (?) Yes, many of us have them. But almost everyone has some kind of illness if they live long enough. Some get them at a younger age. May you be so lucky to never get sick.
"Crazy neighbors" (?) Yes, a lot of us have them also. Doesn't matter what kind of neighborhood you live in. Crazy people are everywhere. I live in a supposed upscale neighborhood and have had two crazy people next door for 20 years. And, look at you, we let you visit & you seem a little narcissistic. Last time I checked, that is a crazy illness.
Venting to Strangers (?) Yes, again! Sometimes it is easier to vent/ rant to an invisible person online than to our 'real' friends. We online friends don't tend to be as judgmental as the people we see everyday. We can focus on the problem better. Don't have to worry about what everyone else is going to say. We don't have to worry about our online friends gossiping to others about us.
So glad your cup is overflowing and ours is only half full. Just remember reversals of fortune can strike at any time.
All I have to say is that the regulars on here ARE my friends. I get up everyday and I think of my girls and then the people on here and what I want to say to them today and I want to read what they have put in comments.
Speaking of friends..I wonder where Jarhead is? And I was so glad to see ArmyMom posting. I've worried about her. And has anyone heard from Noreen? She was going through a hard time and I hope she's okay. It was good to see Bo-Moon posting too.I do think of all of you, it's called friendship, anon. You don't define us. Or our online lives.
well put DD....i have made very good friends here and have met others who can relate to horrific childhoods and i feel that it's been therapeutic for us to share that with each other and support each other.....we have supported each other through horrible times and we cherish and enjoy the good times.....THAT is the definition of friendship to me....
maybe jarhead is on a job and doesn't have internet access or perhaps he took his kids on vacation! i know there's several on here who were having a hard time....i can see her face from her icon and can't recall her name (SORRY!!!)---she was being evicted because her son invited someone to live with them----where is she? i hope things are going okay for her!!
wish that anon would do what they keep threatening to do and stop posting!!!
Miss Tia...are you talking about Kim? I think things worked out for her but don't know if they stayed that way. I haven't seen her back on. I hope that isn't a bad sign.
As for myself, I have had a whole lot of problems and I have often found a lot of emotional support here. Also, these people are living encyclopedias of information. Everything from gardening tips to cement sculptures and oh so much in between. You have a question---someone on here can answer it. And let's not forget chickens!!!! I have learned that not everyone has had a good life in their early years and I have learned how fortunate I was to have had the family I did. I have learned to appreciate what I do have because not everyone has been so lucky. And I sure as hell have learned not to critisize others because I know sure as I am sitting here that I could be in the same boat one day.
It just seems to me that if this site is so irritating, there is a way to cure that--DON'T READ IT!!!! Now that seems simple! Glad I could help!
VanBuren, I think. I had to memorize all the presidents to that date when I was in 8th grade. I never pursued memorizing those who followed, so you would have me there, though.
I feel that people here are my friends, too, and I look forward to coming here every day. There are days (like yesterday) when I can only read or respond briefly between tasks, but I often try to come here then, anyway. Beth, I am very concerned for you and your husband. Forty-five is much too young to have the problems you do. Please rest and take care of yourself. I've been wondering about Kim, too. It sounded as though her son moved out and so did the step-sister (I think it was), but he made her feel badly by telling her he didn't want to be around her, or some such, and I think she needed his financial support to be able to maintain rent, etc. As far as Anon with the chatting husband, I have been there. Years ago, when our son was about six, my husband decided he didn't want to be married anymore. He couldn't afford to move out on his own, so we separated in our home. He just lived his own life. I thought it was a mid-life crisis. I went into counseling, and got him into a counselor of his own. I then managed to wrangle him into a marriage counselor. In the end, the counselors agreed that it was mid-life. Eventually, we got back together, but in the mean time, he went to dating sites, etc. It pissed me off, and what pissed me off even more, is that he was treating our son like he didn't exist. Literally talking around and over the top of his head as if he wasn't even there. I thought it over carefully, and decided that I was okay with him staying, but it wasn't until I went to him and said, "It's okay. You can leave, now. I'll be fine. We don't have to have you here anymore.", that he decided he really wanted to be with both of us. I'm not saying that you should decide to keep him. I am saying that you should take a little time to decided how you want your life to go. Get counseling and marriage counseling for the two of you, if possible, and think it over. Maybe the right decision for you is to go your separate ways, but think it over, so you don't regret it later. The suggestions to stash money, and so forth, are good ones, and I think you should also keep a very private, running diary of exactly what happened, when. It may help you later. I've been wondering where Kiki and JarHead are, too.
Tia & Elisa suggested that I read this and w/o even seeing the deleted anon posts, this post made me cry. I hate it. All the mean comments and cat scratching & hatefulness. I am just so f'g sad right now that I cannot even tell you. I wanted to look at this y'day but by the time Tia told me about it I was leaving work and I dont get online at home. I am so over the computer by then, and the phone. No thanks. Last night I had a sever mennieres attack. Gawd, I really hate that bitch. THATS the only thing I do hate. Besides mean ass people. Gawd, STOP IT! I hope Troll went back under her bridge. So sad right now. I love my friends on here too, like DD. And I worry about them. We all have sh** that has happened to us. We need to talk & learn from each other & so we do. Experience begets knowledge, and I believe we all have lots of experiences to share here. I say it all the time. I love you. I mean it. xoxoxo Rox
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hi DD, hope you are having a great sunday, other than the computer stuff! bima
i know i live in the land of misfit toys, but some one whom i was only NICE too got some idea last year i called the fire dept. on a bonfire they had---i did not and i didn't even KNOW they were having a bonfire---and i just walked back from another neighbors and i don't even walk on her fucking sidewalk i walk in the street and she's in her backyard, drunk as always, and i heard someone ask who i was and she said "miss tia who starts shit and talks about everyone on the internet and we need to burn her house down".....
what the goddamn fuck?!?!?! and no, this is NOT insane neighbor.....but obviously this woman isn't very fucking sane.....and no....never mentioned her on the internet either....
last night i caught my husband chatting with women on an online dating service.i knew i was gonna catch him sooner or later.he even had a secret e-mail all set-up, cocksucker. claims he never actually met up with anyone but i know he's lying.i've been sick to my stomach for the last 24 hours cause of this.don't know what i'm gonna do.have a 3year old and 4month old.where in the fuck am i gonna go?he got on his knees and begged for forgivenness, deleted his profile, email blah blah. kids are asleep,asshole's asleep.thank god mad men's coming on in ten minutes.maybe betty's got some good advice for me. whatever,felt good to get that out.thanks dd,your blog is always such a c omfort to me.
he's probably only sorry he got caught.....if he doesn't agree to marriage counseling, do as dear abby says and go without him!!! and dear abby also always recommends you get tested for STDs.....you can't take his word for anything....
how long has he been doing that shit?? i'd like to personally sever his testicles from his body.....
you know you got support here!! also talk to an attorney....back of the hard drive---even a deleted profile can be 'found'....copy the history....scour that puter for information and print it all out!!!
Aww, sorry to hear about your situation anon. I hope he is genuine in his repentance, but miss tia is right, definitely get yourself checked out and protect yourself and your kids and talk to someone.
Miss Tia you have horrible insane neighbors. DD does too...seems to be the norm. That's no comfort, I know.
land of misfit toys!!!!!
anon - I would not venture to give you advice but if it were me I would figure out if I was DONE with him and if I was I would NOT tell him that until I had every one of my ducks in a row. Where I was going to go, enough $ to make it happen, legal assistance ready to roll etc. I agree, thank goodness for DD's! In the meantime, (((hug))) to you.
uh, and i did WHAT this person??? i walked down the street and so it's valid to threaten to burn down my house???....i never called the fire dept. on her and all i did today WAS WALK DOWN THE FUCKING PUBLIC STREET....and lets see....the woman who was abusing her kids, that was my fault?? the insane neighbor faking illesses, that's my fault??? the woman who pees and shits publicly, that's my fault???
YOU anon-a-mouse 12:18 are a full of shit trash talker....use your brain to think instead of sit on it....
Miss Tia's advice is rock solid! Oh and to the 2nd Anon -Fuck You!
Wish I had some great words of wisdom for you guys concerning crazy neighbors and lousy husbands. Just wanted you to know that I am out here and thinking of you.
Annie
anon-a-fuck that's great you can spell eloquently.....unfortunately, i speak the truth.....i do wish this was some bizarre sitcom but it's not, it's my life.....and there are many people who can verify everything i say...in some cases there's police reports, reports to child services, etc....
i'm not insane, i have PTSD, which is an anxiety condition....
some days i can be nice....but i sure in the fuck won't be nice to a piece of shit shit talking such as yourself.....hiding behind anon-a-mouse and taking advantage because DD can't really be online to delete your shit....
talk your shit....make ya feel better??? Why are you here anyway? just to start shit??? why don't you go to another site where your shit is welcomed?? oh that's right....you are a troll....
oh and anon who can spell 'eloquently', i have a pretty good idea who you are.....you can't hide your writing style very good....might wanna work on that....
get any pix off wikipedia lately??
point out what?? that i have fucked up neighbors, uh DUH!!.....and gee, some of us are poor....but that might be hard for you to comprehend....you sure liked to brag about your neighborhood and house....i bet 80% of what you use to write here was a lie....
oh and miss tia IS my real name....can you understand that??
yeah, toodles to fuck off land...
anon with the cheating husband:
you should try for counseling before you do anything drastic. Having young children in this economy is stressful...get yourself tested, stop having sex with him, and get some therapy. Don't do anything drastic. Men have evolved to fuck around--it's just their nature. Take some time to think about it, talk to a professional and then make a decision. Just try to remain calm for the sake of your kids.
anon 11:51 here,
thankyou everyone for your kind words and advice.you have no idea how they really do help.wont sleep a wink tonight again, that's for sure. def gonna get tested for std's. i can't believe this is happening to me, i am so ashamed:'(
sorry asshole cocksucker husband if i cant be your personal sex goddess right now.i'm trying to breastfeed a demanding four month oldand clean-up and chase after a crazy 3 year old.he said he would go to counseling but i don't know.
gotta talk to a lawyer. gotta line-up all my ducks as nancyb said.
wow, this is really theraputic
miss tia sorry about your crazy assed neighbours and anon 12:18: fuck-off! everyone else thankyou.
hmmmm.....for someone who proclaims to have class:
you make fun of my anxiety condition
you call me names
you proclaim to know my politics
you proclaim to know my views on welfare
you make fun of my real name--whilst hiding behind anon-a-mouse
and you like to play armchair shrink...
yeah...i sure wanna emulate you....i am now 95% sure i know who you are....claim you never posted here....just another lie...
just stop posting, eh? just leave me alone, eh? oh that's right, you can't; because you feel superior and wanna let everyone know....
for now, i'll just keep calling ya a troll....
anon 1:24---definitely talk to a lawyer, even if you both go to counseling....that way you will know what to expect, etc....and depending what state you live in, some states will take most of the man's income for child support! and if he will go to cousenling, definitely go with him, even if you get divorced, it will help you be able to have a cordial relationship with him that will be beneficial to your children, because no matter what a louse he's been to you, he'll always be their father and in their lives...
HUGS!!! you know you got support here!!! (minus the trolls!!)
Oh Fuck Tia it's an insane Tea Bagger or probably an even more insane "Christian" conservative. Fuck this troll. You have friends here and don't owe this pig shit any explanation. Tia, if you think you know who this piece of shit is, please "out" them. I know I've seen that term "toodles" used by a toll before on blogs a lot of us are familiar with. FUCK OFF TROLL you're wasting your time.
something is wrong with the anonymous poster who is being so rude to Tia on this blog. I suggest to that poster that it start it's own blog, then we can visit it when we are bored. It can call the blog: "I have a penis where my brain should be."
good bye anonymous poster--go have another box of wine.
"Wow sally that is all you got? Funny one..."
apparently it was enough to get you to reply, idiot.
Anon 11:51...I would allow your husband his one mistake. But I would also make sure he understands that's it! Any more and he would have to leave. I know that's easy for me to say and I don't know if I would really do it, but it seems like what I SHOULD do.
DD...if you are able, can you tell me what the orange flowers are that are in your heading?
I just got out of the hospital yesterday for "unstable angina" ie. pre-heart attack, taking care of my crazy mother-in-law. I'm trying to rest, but have to go over there in a little bit to stay with her while my husband goes on an appt. with HIS dr...sigh. They diagnosed me as Ischemic Cardiomyopathy. By the way, I'm 45 years old.....
Fucked up, huh?
Gotta keep smiling, right?
Beth in Seville
Anonymous 11:51 ~
Agree with everyone telling you to protect yourself with medical/ mental and legal knowledge to help. But don't forget the financial ... if it is at all possible, start stuffing back as much money as you can. Call it a "just in case" account. Don't put it in the bank, if all goes south ... he could get his hands on it. Keep it cash and hide it somewhere. Know times are hard for everyone right now, but even a few extra bucks could help.
Delete. Anons will not talk shit to Miss Tia here.
Bayou, they are marigolds.Have tons of seeds if you want some.
Beth, get well soon. I am so sorry you're having such a bad time of it.
thanks ladies and thanks DD for deleting them!! hopefully they'll get the message!!
Beth---feel better ASAP!!!
toodles----you sure proved my point by further acting superior to everyone...your life is so charmed you have to troll on her and brag about it....
fuck the fuck off!
where the fuck do you think i am admitting the things you said are true??? you are here bragging about your life, giving unsolicited rude advice and talking shit.....
and if your life is so fucking great why are you here??? seems to be pretty hollow and you seem very shallow....
someday you will need real friends and sure burned your bridges here....
and you would THINK that getting deleted would give you a CLUE that you are not welcomed here....but no....guess not....
Believe I have plenty of friends and if and when I need them they are there for me. I don't need to come to some blog and vent with a bunch of strangers. Sad really that you have no friends in the real world only your imaginery ones here on the Dirty Disher.
Good bye for now.....Miss Tia you may have the floor - I am still wwaiting for your so classy all caps FU.....I see it coming in 1....2.....
it's SAD that you come here to brag about your imaginary charmed life and try to impart troll wisdom such as that we shouldn't vent here or talk about things that bother us....and you have the right to do that because???????
you get deleted and you still come back and troll....because you became a troll....you had friends here and now for whatever reason you've decided to attack us.....
i have REAL friends here, thank you very much and i have REAL friends in real life.....
Ok - so I commented a handful of times throughout the year on some things that DD posted. I always posted anonymous and that makes everyone else who posts on here my friend? I have never had a conversation with any of you, never vented about my life etc ....That makes no sense at all.
You guys are ridiculous with "everyone who doesn't agree with us is a troll" mentality. Grow up. Oh no are you going to call me a "troll" again - oh please don't. it's so hurtful.
Honestly Good bye. Sorry if I hurt your feelings. You put yourself out there you open the door for critism. Sincerely I wish you all the best. Now I have things to do with my day...
Best of luck to you all.
we have disagreements all the time on here.....YOU are being judgmental and playing armchair psychologist....and you keep coming back after you've been deleted and when you even say you won't post anymore....you go on and on about your wonderful life and insult us, make fun of my disability, call me names and hide behind anon-a-mouse...
if that ain't a troll i dunno what is....but whatever.....keep posting your shit....
so you're one of those people who think we shouldn't write about our lives??? you're a really stupid fuck....
and once again you are saying 'good bye'....but i am sure you will be back! buh bye! enjoy your day and your perfect life!
Oh, little troll baby. I'm glad your life is all sweetness and light.
I don't normally talk to trolls, but You are starting to piss me off, too. If you took a poll of all the posters on DD's I think you'd be surprised at how highly educated most of us are.
"Illnesses" (?) Yes, many of us have them. But almost everyone has some kind of illness if they live long enough. Some get them at a younger age. May you be so lucky to never get sick.
"Crazy neighbors" (?) Yes, a lot of us have them also. Doesn't matter what kind of neighborhood you live in. Crazy people are everywhere. I live in a supposed upscale neighborhood and have had two crazy people next door for 20 years. And, look at you, we let you visit & you seem a little narcissistic. Last time I checked, that is a crazy illness.
Venting to Strangers (?) Yes, again! Sometimes it is easier to vent/ rant to an invisible person online than to our 'real' friends. We online friends don't tend to be as judgmental as the people we see everyday. We can focus on the problem better. Don't have to worry about what everyone else is going to say. We don't have to worry about our online friends gossiping to others about us.
So glad your cup is overflowing and ours is only half full. Just remember reversals of fortune can strike at any time.
Toodles Troll
Never said my cup was overflowing
"So glad your cup is overflowing and ours is only half full."
Never said my life was wonderful
"you go on and on about your wonderful life and insult us"
Never made fun of your PTSD
"make fun of my disability"
All I have to say is that the regulars on here ARE my friends. I get up everyday and I think of my girls and then the people on here and what I want to say to them today and I want to read what they have put in comments.
Speaking of friends..I wonder where Jarhead is? And I was so glad to see ArmyMom posting. I've worried about her. And has anyone heard from Noreen? She was going through a hard time and I hope she's okay. It was good to see Bo-Moon posting too.I do think of all of you, it's called friendship, anon. You don't define us. Or our online lives.
well put DD....i have made very good friends here and have met others who can relate to horrific childhoods and i feel that it's been therapeutic for us to share that with each other and support each other.....we have supported each other through horrible times and we cherish and enjoy the good times.....THAT is the definition of friendship to me....
maybe jarhead is on a job and doesn't have internet access or perhaps he took his kids on vacation! i know there's several on here who were having a hard time....i can see her face from her icon and can't recall her name (SORRY!!!)---she was being evicted because her son invited someone to live with them----where is she? i hope things are going okay for her!!
wish that anon would do what they keep threatening to do and stop posting!!!
Miss Tia...are you talking about Kim? I think things worked out for her but don't know if they stayed that way. I haven't seen her back on. I hope that isn't a bad sign.
As for myself, I have had a whole lot of problems and I have often found a lot of emotional support here. Also, these people are living encyclopedias of information. Everything from gardening tips to cement sculptures and oh so much in between. You have a question---someone on here can answer it. And let's not forget chickens!!!!
I have learned that not everyone has had a good life in their early years and I have learned how fortunate I was to have had the family I did. I have learned to appreciate what I do have because not everyone has been so lucky. And I sure as hell have learned not to critisize others because I know sure as I am sitting here that I could be in the same boat one day.
It just seems to me that if this site is so irritating, there is a way to cure that--DON'T READ IT!!!!
Now that seems simple! Glad I could help!
YES! Kim, thank you Jane!! I could totally see her picture but couldn't recall her name!! i hope things are going well for her!!
and you are right, we can ask a question about anything and someone will know!!
Who was the 8th President of the US - Cheating if you google it...You say you all have the answers to EVERYTHING.
you need to learn to read anon.....ever heard of 'context' also?? i know i know....big concept....don't get context and concept confused....
too many 'c' words for ya? well i won't toss out another lest it perplex you!
ohhh...look at you using the big word lest.....Good job!
"lest" has four letters which i do not think qualifies it as a big word, though to a mental midget that probably would be a big word....
VanBuren, I think. I had to memorize all the presidents to that date when I was in 8th grade. I never pursued memorizing those who followed, so you would have me there, though.
I feel that people here are my friends, too, and I look forward to coming here every day. There are days (like yesterday) when I can only read or respond briefly between tasks, but I often try to come here then, anyway.
Beth, I am very concerned for you and your husband. Forty-five is much too young to have the problems you do. Please rest and take care of yourself.
I've been wondering about Kim, too. It sounded as though her son moved out and so did the step-sister (I think it was), but he made her feel badly by telling her he didn't want to be around her, or some such, and I think she needed his financial support to be able to maintain rent, etc.
As far as Anon with the chatting husband, I have been there. Years ago, when our son was about six, my husband decided he didn't want to be married anymore. He couldn't afford to move out on his own, so we separated in our home. He just lived his own life. I thought it was a mid-life crisis. I went into counseling, and got him into a counselor of his own. I then managed to wrangle him into a marriage counselor. In the end, the counselors agreed that it was mid-life. Eventually, we got back together, but in the mean time, he went to dating sites, etc. It pissed me off, and what pissed me off even more, is that he was treating our son like he didn't exist. Literally talking around and over the top of his head as if he wasn't even there.
I thought it over carefully, and decided that I was okay with him staying, but it wasn't until I went to him and said, "It's okay. You can leave, now. I'll be fine. We don't have to have you here anymore.", that he decided he really wanted to be with both of us.
I'm not saying that you should decide to keep him. I am saying that you should take a little time to decided how you want your life to go. Get counseling and marriage counseling for the two of you, if possible, and think it over. Maybe the right decision for you is to go your separate ways, but think it over, so you don't regret it later. The suggestions to stash money, and so forth, are good ones, and I think you should also keep a very private, running diary of exactly what happened, when. It may help you later.
I've been wondering where Kiki and JarHead are, too.
Tia & Elisa suggested that I read this and w/o even seeing the deleted anon posts, this post made me cry. I hate it. All the mean comments and cat scratching & hatefulness. I am just so f'g sad right now that I cannot even tell you. I wanted to look at this y'day but by the time Tia told me about it I was leaving work and I dont get online at home. I am so over the computer by then, and the phone. No thanks. Last night I had a sever mennieres attack. Gawd, I really hate that bitch. THATS the only thing I do hate. Besides mean ass people. Gawd, STOP IT! I hope Troll went back under her bridge. So sad right now. I love my friends on here too, like DD. And I worry about them. We all have sh** that has happened to us. We need to talk & learn from each other & so we do. Experience begets knowledge, and I believe we all have lots of experiences to share here. I say it all the time. I love you. I mean it. xoxoxo
Rox
thanks Rox! sorry about your attack! that sucks!!
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