This Bethenny Frankel divorce from Jason Hoppy is getting so dirty I can't believe it. But, the more I read, the more I understand what motivated her to let her dirty laundry flag fly. Jason has dragged out this divorce for what seems like years. In a statement from her lawyer we hear,
'He threatened to destroy her,' Frankel's attorney said.
'He had her followed and spied on along with their daughter. He hacked into her most private personal email.'
'He has consciously placed his desire for revenge … over the best
interests of this family and particularly the child,' Mayefsky
concluded. 'He has sought to obsessively control their every move
through their daughter."
I totally believe that. He seems like the type who would try to destroy her simply because she doesn't want to be with him anymore. And he IS controlling. You could see it on the show. Every word she said, he had to butt in a try and correct her way of thinking or put her down for the way she said it. It was sickening to me and I remember yelling at the screen, "Tell that asshole to shut the fuck up, Bethenny!" It seemed to me, as a viewer, that she tried really hard to please him and his whole obsessive family. Hell, he knew who he was marrying. He married an assertive bitch, he liked her that way or he wouldn't have married her. Would he? I think now, that he married her for fame and money and when he couldn't control every thing that came out of her mouth, he went ballistic.
I know this is a lot of typing about someone I don't even know, but, I think this happens to a lot of women. Gawd, first he refuses to move out of HER apartment that she bought and decorated, then he accuses her of taking everything when she left! Go figure that thinking. Of course you'd take your stuff, asshole. She took the cooking utensils. She's a fucking chef! WTF? She even left him temporary cooking stuff until he could buy some. I wouldn't have done that. WTF is he on about?
Oh, there SOOO much more, but, the one thing I just read
HERE is that the bastard locked her dog, Cookie in a storage closet. Anyone who watches Bethenny knows Cookie is second only to Bethenny's daughter in her life. She's always had Cookie and Cookie is treated as a member of the family. He knew that would flip her out to know Cookie got locked in a storage area! He also took Cookie to a dog hotel and refused to tell Bethenny where the dog was! That shit is such deliberate meanness. I mean, gawd, Cookie is Bethenny's best friend and she had her own You Tube channel. That shit wasn't posted by an assistant. It was all Bethenny and Cookie. So, doing these things to Bethenny isn't like if someone put my annoying dog in a storage room. I'd just go, ehh. But, he knew Bethenny would flip the fuck out. Anyone would know that. He's an asshole.
This Jason dick needs to get his ass kicked in court. He's now making Bethenny look like a crazy bitch and that's so fucking typical of a controller. It's called gaslighting. Look it up. I just hate him.
You ugly controlling bastard, when this is over, no one will take your damn picture and no one will pay you millions to be on tv. No one wanted to see you or your goofy mother in the first place. We tuned in for Bethenny, you were just there, sticking your big nose in for no good reason. Get lost.
Men who do this to women ARE controllers of the worst kind. Have you ever been in the clutches of a controller, male or female? Tell me about it.
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My niece left her husband of 17 years, for the same reason. 3 years later and still not divorced. He's now appealed to superior court, with a 217 page appeal. All about how he's been wronged. Hasn't seen his kids-4 under the age of 12- in 2 years!!! He's refused to do ONE thing that's been court ordered. He's still upset that she left him. He home schooled all the kids while she worked two jobs, no play dates, one cell phone he had control of, scheduled sex times, and fired from three jobs, because he didn't take direction well.
Wow. Talk about a control freak! She must be so much happier now, but, I'm sure she can't completely go on with her life with the divorce not final. Men like that have that in common, they keep it going forever while they make lists of wrongs they imagine. Or they think the woman will come back. It's so sick.
She got her bachelors during the 'divorce' and is now finishing her masters. While working full time and managing household. What saved her, when people asked if they could help, she said YES!
Took me over a year to get out of a mess like this....and being followed and harrassed sucks....i have been out of that for almost 20 years, and so thankful i am not dealng with it anymore....
snowbunnie
Tricia, I think that even with all her money (which does help) that's an amazing goal to reach for.
Snowbunnie, I never knew that about you. I like learning these things, it gives me so much insight into who I'm talking to. You'd be a great person to ask advice from. I had a weird divorce. I wanted it, he didn't. I knew I'd never get married again, so I never filed and never gave one shit. He got obsessive and drug it out for years and years with pages and page of things I could and couldn't do from his lawyer. I never paid it any mind. I just threw that shit in the burn pile. I don't even know how long I was married (I could ask my stalker, she probably knows) but, finally he got tired of me ignoring his legal crap and divorced me for real. Now, he's so much happier. I actually like him now. It just took him so long to move on. I moved on as soon as I walked out the door.
Mine was a long time ago...he was so bent on finding out whatever he thought was real that he even asked me if he could take the phone off the wall to use at his brothers house, and since I had another one I didn't even care, but what he really did was left me with a cordless and then went up the street with a scanner and listened to my conversations...who does that? That was just one of the many many crazy antics....it is really weird how you think you know someone and sometimes you never really do...
Snowbunnie
I had a little bit of empathy for Jason until he effed with Cookie. He needs to get a job and move on with his life.
Debby
Pat, she had NO money, was going to food banks, living off student loans, house was in foreclosure and they had just filed for bankruptcy. Which is why this all more amazing to me.!!
I loaned her a car, when the one he left her died, after 3 months, her work gave her gift certificates for food, she went to an abuse group weekly and they gave her gift cards for a hotel, if she needed to hide with the kids. Her mother paid for her lawyer initially, her lawyer bought her a trunk full of groceries one Christmas, I put her on my cell phone plan, so she had a phone. People stepped up to help, and she took it, which helped her survive.
Lol! My mother.
I saw a bottle of Skinny Girl in my kitchen this morning, I had forgotten about. It made me think of her. I Thot to myself, "why didn't she call it Skinny Bitch?" I would have.
Snowbunnie, that's so creepy. Do you still suffer the effects of that spying stuff? I had that once, with a guy who wasn't even my BF. The creep taped recording devices under my tables and spied on me with telescopic lenses. He got caught using a rifle scope with a laser lens pointing at me. Red dot in the middle of the night, on my head! I flipped out and I'm still paranoid about spying.
Debby, he sure did mess with Cookie, he played his real hand. I think he's done now. Any judge worth his or her salt, has to see what he's doing.
Tricia, that's so great. It makes you wonder what women who have no help do? Controllers like to isolate women, so they have no one to turn to.
LIa, your mother? She was a controller? You've talked about her a little, but, not much really. Painful subject, I guess.
Rox,Skinny Bitch would have been a great name. Wasn't there a dispute over the name Skinny Girl with Teresa Guidice and her products, can't remember. Either of them could have gone with Skinny Bitch. LOL.
This has been one of the most interesting posts for me. I've learned some real and personal things about some of you. I want to get into this some more. If anyone feels like they can't say anything on the blog, you can always email me. I'm a good secret keeper and I really am interested.
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