I heard people on here were worried about me. I am not okay. I can't seem to find anyone who can help me around here. I'm hanging in, but, in plenty of pain. No sleep, not eating, just pain. I have another appointment Tues. If I can just find something that will stop the relentless pain so I can at least, sleep, I'll get back to you. Right now, I've had about all I can do to make sure the animals are fed.
PS, a girl can't even take a vacation, everyone says goodbye like you're dead already. WTF?
82 comments:
Whoever you are, you are the personification of evil. Get what you think you can get.
What the fuck is going on around here? First Disher is at death's door, then she isn't. How is any sane person supposed to keep up with all the drama?????
I'm so fucking confused right now.
Playing games.
What the fuck is going on here?
Playing games.
I am so confused as well. If this was all a ruse to get people's attention and comments, it is truly disturbing.
Pat, was it really Casey J., your daughter, who wrote on the previous post? Or someone impersonating her? Are you in a facility or is someone just fucking with your readers????
Nice. Real nice. "Recovery not expected"....then you shame people like fools for taking it seriously.
Take some? No thanks. I think I've taken all the bullshit I can handle for one sitting. There's someone cruel around here, alright. [~arching eyebrows~]
Someone was impersonating me. I didn't write any of that shit! They didn't even spell my nieces name correctly. Wtf is wrong with people? ?!!!!!
Casey have you spoken to your mom? It doesn't make sense that she wouldn't address this situation.
I noticed the weird spelling of Lis' name but everyone else "ran" with it so thought I had missed something somewhere...
And, yes, is Pat going to address WTF just went on?!?!?!? Casey, you took the time to come and set things straight (who alerted you?); why not Pat?...
One of the bloggers just alerted me tonight.
I knew that profile seemed wrong. I remembered yours having your pic. This is all kinds of messed up.
I realize now that Casey does have her pic on comments. If we had realized this earlier, we would have known something was up. Something so simple. I'm glad I'm not a detective. I wouldn't solve any crimes.
For what it's worth, I would much rather be fooled than to have all of that be true. I can take being made to look like a fool. Troll got to Pat by getting to us. How can someone be that cruel? Damn, get a life! You probably pull wings off butterflies and kick kittens just to get your jollies. But in a way, it backfired. All this did was to show Pat how much we care for her. Could all this have happened just because of jealousy?
There is nothing to be ashamed about. You responded genuinely to distressing news. Just the way that a person should do. It is the person who exploited that quality who should feel shame. They don't, but that's not on you.
Well well well ,
So it wasn't Casey J yesterday and Pat is not in a facility and this blog won't be closing down.
Jane & frimmy ita with you both. Better that pat is safe at home than this being true.
SHAME on the troll !
However it all went amiss for the troll as to show how we all gathered here to send our sentiments to Pat.
Backfired how we all showed our love for Pat and Casey and Lissa.
Imagine that ! We actually care ! Like Dan zinski said there are real people here behind these computers. Indeed.
Kiki :)
Oh wow! I'm so happy, spent the last two days thinking about how horrible it will be without you. God I hate those fucking trolls, they have been posting pictures of scantly dressed females on your Facebook too. If you get a chance Pat go in and delete them. I read somewhere that trolls actually behave in such an offensive way because they want attention. Well they sure got their 10 cents worth the his time. I spent this morning reading through Pats earliest blogs and those trolling cunts have always been there, they are part and parcel of social media so I guess we have no choice but to tolerate them and try not to give them air by responding to them. But hey troll you did well this time. Now Pat knows how much we love her.
I was a little bit worried about Pat but I was curious that the person who posted their name was not Casey Jones, they had "Casey J" and they didn't have the a picture of Casey!!
I am glad that Pat is ok!
Deb
you gullible fucks are so easy! hahahahahaha
Tia
Fuck Pat! I had nightmares all night, I am so glad you're not "on your way out".
Carry on Lady!
Shelly
I am just speechless right now at the cruelty of the troll. I'm so glad Pat is ok, but as for anything else, I just can't....
DD's getting a lot of drama mileage out of "tia".
@ 4:03:00 AM - I don't see why you're so confused about all this. Remember, this is the same woman who uploaded an obviously doctored photo of what she claimed to be some sort of supernatural entity that had been persecuting her to the point of severe ill health some months ago, but when it was pointed out to her by several people in the comments that a quick Google image search of said photo could demonstrate that it was indeed fake, she completely ignored them and carried on shamelessly as if nothing had happened.
I think she and that other bag of medical waste Miss Tia are as bad as each other and should be tied to a telephone pole out in the desert somewhere and left to rot.
Pat you are cruel. I think you and Casey are up to something. I think something did happen to you. There is some truth in Casey's original comment, weather she signed in or not. And after some fact checking, you are in a facility. I think you are just pissed Casey posted that comment, but I have friends in Guntown and you were taken via ambulance and unresponsive. And Lissa is not in your care.
People wise up. Pat is the biggest TROLL of all.
To Frimmy@5:39-- True, and nicely said.
To anonymous@ 4:03--
I believe the flippancy says it all.
Yeah, I figured it was just another side-show carnie schill. Good thing I kept my nickel's worth of sympathy safely in my pocket, since Pat's been greasing the plates again.
I don't get any of this shit. Can't someone track the IP on that comment and see who posted it?
Um, you mean like the blog owner?
March 27, 2016 at 5:11:00 AM GMT-11
Mom was never taken via ambulance anywhere. What the hell are you talking about?
Obviously she's not feeling well, so no, she can not check it right now. Is there anyone else who knows how to do it?
I don't know how to do anything like that or I would be on it. I am sorry I can't help with this.
I sure would like to confirm my suspicions about who is behind this crap, though.
Does anyone else know have computer skills?
Christina
Not me Christina, but there must be someone on this blog who is more computer literate than me. Casey I'm so sorry you are having to read this waste of space's nastiness. Hoping Pat is feeling better today and that the Dr. is able to control her pain.
I'm just glad that it doesn't appear to be as serious as we all thought, everything else is just soap opera drama.
Jarhead
Tracking the IP would have to be done from the back end/admin of the blog. There isn't any way it can be done from this side. Pat once said she blocked an IP so she has the capabilities. It doesn't keep someone from posting from a proxy.
Casy, teenagers commit suicide because of trolls, here in Australia you only need to post a feminist comment, or write something against domestic violence or post a photo of a woman breast feeding and the trolls come out. Yesterday I was reading about a woman who posted a photo of her Downs Syndrome child and the Downs Syndrome hating trolls came out. Unfortunately, with social media, we are forced to rub shoulders with these victim blamers, slut shamers, racists, haters and bigots. They are like ISIS, they only serve to cause fear, loathing and mayhem among people who only want to get on with their lives and gain some enjoyment out of reading a blog written by a talented and entertaining creative writer. Sometimes I get so pissed off with trolls that I just want to spew and rip their heads off, but that is exactly the what these mentally unbalanced people are trying to achieve. It's best to completely ignore them, they want you to engage, don't give them what they want. As for the judgemental commenters: this is a
B L O G! Pat is a writer, you are a reader, not her closest friend and confidant. You are not in her house right now helping her feed the animals, clean the house, cook, drive her mother. Your only involvement in Pats life is reading her blog and making comments it's not really any or your dam business to judge Pat. Casey, I'm sorry you have been confronted by all these tiny minded, calculating, speculating, hating, suspicious bigots who have absolutely no business whatsoever poking into Pats private business. Pat, get better soon. I wish I could get beyond the keyboard to help you out.
And you know what, oh high and mightier than though, judgemental, tiny minded readers? Who gives a FLYING FUCK if Pat was 'admitted' via ambulance somewhere? Who cares if everything Pat writes is nothing but bullshit? And who are you to judge Pat for supposedly turning to her blog and writing on the day Eric died? ITS NON OF YOUR FUCKING B U S I N E S S. What makes you think that just because you choose to visit this blog and read its contents and subsequently comment that you have some ownership over Pat and what she writes? I feel so sorry for you, you are so mean spirited, your lives are so dull and you are so judgemental and tiny minded that it makes my head explode.
Oh, Lia...you have a very kind, loving heart. That is why I hate to see you be disappointed. You are truly innocent. But, my darling, there is a time when you have to stop being so naive. Pat plays tricks with people's emotions. That's all there is to say.
"ITS NON OF YOUR FUCKING B U S I N E S S. "
Um, as soon as anyone posts anything online, it becomes everyone's business. That's kinda how the internet works, sweetie.
Pat doesn't play tricks with my emotions because I take Pat and her blogs on face value. I find her blog entertaining and I like some of the regulars who comment there. I know Pat is human but I live an entirely different life to Pat on the other side of the planet. I would be very sad to see The Dirty Disher come to an end. But I don't think Pat is obliged to blog three times a day, or even once a month, purely for my entertainment. My life doesn't revolve around Pat and I don't rely on Pat for anything more than a place to visit when I'm looking at my iPad. I fully believe that Pat is free to blog what she wants whether it be fact or fiction and she can't hurt or disappoint me because I am able to distinguish my real life from cyber life. So don't condescend me by telling me that I am naive, or demonise Pat. It's not your place. But yes, you are right, I have a kind loving heart, so trust me when I say to you that Pat is a blogger, you can enjoy her blog as I do, or move on. But don't hang around trying to bag her and warn me against Pat, that's not your place. And this is what the whole discussion around Pat is about. She has the right to write what the fuck she wants, you have the right to read it, but you don't have the right to slander Pat, or condescend me. I choose to read Pats blog, complete with drama and that's my right, You don't have to concern yourself with wether it fucks with my mind. I'm an adult I can make independent decisions and take good care of my emotional health. You need to learn to create a bit of a distance, a respectful distance.
Something that I've learned from the Internet 'sweetie' is that you can't reason with unreasonable people. So I'm out, the sun is shining and you've sucked as much of my energy as I'm prepared to give out. It was more aimed at Casey to start with anyway.
@ Lia - oh blow me, you nauseating, ass-kissing nincompoop.
Yesterday, we were under the impression, based on a comment by Casey, that Pat was on death's door. A lot of us responded with concern and well wishes. It turns out that a "troll" left that comment. Okay, that sucks. Our bad for not fact-checking, I guess. But then...Pat herself posts this. This strange post that makes reference to all the comments that had her dead, but with absolutely NO explanation of the comment that led people to believe that? People thought Pat was fucking DEAD and now we have Lia lecturing us about minding our business??? This blog is a fucking JOKE. Run by a fucking PSYCHOPATH. Way to go, DD. You made everyone care for 5 more seconds.
The "hey" post sounds nothing like any previous ones from DD...but they have been all over the place lately. This might be the biggest catfishing scheme ever?!
You do realize, in the post about the magical briefcase she opened: she talked about finding and keeping something. Someone asked about that in comments and she responded to look closely, as the item was in the photo.....was she talking about the cartons of V Slims or the GUN in the middle?? Unbalanced or just a big farce for entertainment?
Oh, man. It was me who asked what the secret object in the briefcase was, and I even went back to look again when DD said it was right there in the pic. Not only on close second scrutiny did I somehow mangage to overlook the V Slims, I also somehow overlooked the GUN. Front and center, as big as life, "obvious as dogs balls" as they say in Australia, and in capital letters to boot,lol. Thanks for finally solving the hidden-object puzzle for me!
Lia, do yourself a favor and read "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People". In it you'll find an outline of the hallmark traits of "enemy-oriented people", and some helpful insight as to why enemy/anger orientation is so enervating as a life strategy coping mechanism. There's better and less isolating ways to go through life than as an emotional adrenaline junkie.
If that's our troll talking, that sure is the pot calling the kettle black! Look in the mirror and say that!
Everyone is so busy troll hating and hunting they can't accept the possibility the victim is the one creating their martyrdom. Those who admitted that she lies and they don't care just enabled and emboldened her. She tripped bad this time with her daughter finding out. She has said she wanted to stop blogging. Instead of going out in a blaze of glory; like a thief in the night the blog will just be deleted.
Susan
@Susan. I've been saying this for a long time. Pat admitted a few years back that she relishes the discord on her blog. She just sits back, watches and loves the arguments. It's quite sick if you ask me. There are many enablers on this blog. Followers, who don't realize they are being taken advantage of. They are merely pawns in Pat's game. Pat cares for no one, otherwise she wouldn't try pulling the wool over people's eyes on a continuous basis. At this point, I don't believe anything she's ever said.
@ Anon 10:58:00 AM: Do you think she's a sociopath?
Most likely, YES. I've thought this for a very long time. Pat can do whatever she wants to do but it's the blind followers that worry me. Their trust, support and allegiance give Pat power. Power to continue to manipulate nice people who have nothing but the best of intentions.
And what exactly does Pat gain from her "followers?" She's not making any money of them.
@ 1:25:00 PM - She gains attention. It's a powerful drug.
http://outofthefog.website/personality-disorders-1/2015/12/6/histrionic-personality-disorder-hpd
It's called contact and friendship, you Freud-a-loon.
You don't know what real friendship is, Pat.
ps, deaths door is in an unmarked location,however I might lose my leg. Is that sick enough for ya, or do I have to actually die and come back as an angry computer code?
Lia :)
More histrionics. Stop, Pat.
Hi Pat
Glad to see that you're back replying and at the helm of your blog.
Kiki:)
To Anon8:25 ~ I'm not "our troll" or even "a troll", though for the briefest moment your collective possesive personal pronoun made me feel all warm and fuzzy, like a company mascot, like Chuck E. Cheese or sump'n. Alas, I'm but a lowly passerby.
I hate the thought of anyone losing a leg. I knew a guy, diabetic, who lost two legs a toe at a time. It nibbled away at him.
Drama and the medical macabre aside, I thought it was nice how warmly you regulars clung to one another in the face of uncertainty and impending change in order to preserve your community. Like the little mice in "Who Moved My Cheese", you were bravely setting off in search of Cheese Station N.
How many times and how many ways do we have to say this....WE DON'T GIVE A DAMN!!!!!! What is Pat supposed to be taking from us? POWER!!! Then what are you getting out of this constant aggravation that you keep spewing----could you be wanting said power? Everything was fine until you felt like you had to save the world from big, bad Pat. Duh, how big is your god complex???
And then you get on Lia and tell her about "enemy-oriented people"! What the hell do you think you are? Give it up and go away. Don't you realize you are like that little chinese finger tube----the harder you pull, the more we want to stay. You stupid shit, wake up. You are one of the reasons most of us stay with Pat---you are the chinese finger cuff! Keep talking and watch us dig in even harder. And as for playing with our emotions? I would much rather be as deep in heart-breaking emotion than to be a dry desert of emotions.
As far as you are concerned, who cares what Pat gets out of this? She gives just as much as she takes. I could read her stories all day and I really don't go looking for every little lie or falsehood---tearing apart her stories like a hawk ripping apart a field mouse.
Just stop. I'm sure you would be a much happier person if you found something physically constructive to do with your time.
And while I'm at it, what kind of living thing are you to bring Casey J. into all this? What has she ever done to anyone? Are you unable to realize that this would be very upsetting to her? It's bad enough that you are tearing apart her mom. How low can you get? You know the saying, "If you can't say something nice----DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL"!
I for one am really tired of nthe whole drama. Back off! You are getting nowhere! Now tell me how NAIVE I AM!!!!! DAMN!!!! I'VE HAD ENOUGH!!!!!
Pat, google "deaths door" for directions. Then make sure you go the opposite way. IF FOR NO OTHER REASON THAN TO DRIVE TROLL CRAZY!!!!!!! (Wait! She's there already!)
And for those of you who think I am (or we are) blind followers or pawns. I have 20/20 eyesight. And what I see is a whole lot of jealousy. (And by the way, I am a queen in this chess game!)
And that's all I will say on this subject. I just hope that Pat will one day be fit enough to let us know what happened to Shirley, Harry and the gang! Whether it's true or make believe. It's a good read!
Anonymous stop posting Anonymous then we will have some respect for you. Big talk, dont even use your name. Fuck off.
who go the kool-aid?
who go the kool-aid?
I would advise any kindly souls to abstain from sending gifts, monetary or otherwise.
Thanks Jane!
Pat
Keep rocking
And keep blogging
;-)
What Jane said.
Take care of yourself, Pat. I hope all the positive energy we are all sending helps you, even if just a tiny bit, knowing you have real friends. You've been my friend for so many years, and I am grateful for all the laughs you've given me over the years. You've created a little community here.
Be well my friend!
There are cactii aplenty in dire need of being extracted from many a gangrenous, stretched-out cunt round these parts of late...
there r shenanigans and hijinks a plenty, and just plain troll fuckery. what ever. but we have some pretty amazing ppl here, and that can't be bought or faked. to the rest of u, what does it matter, what's ur investment? certainly isn't kindness of heart, generosity of spirit, the grace of soul. this place not ur cup of tea? why not move on? nothing's keeping u but ur own vitriol. certainly ur choice. we all choose, cool thing about being sentient. we can make choices. what's my investment? expectation? none, I have no claim here. I simply enjoy the chatter of the knowledgable, the real talk from the ppl that have traveled the road less traveled, and the ppl who can just believe and not require a pound of flesh as payment. this site doesn't owe u jack, Pat doesn't owe any of us jack. if u don't like what u read u-me r all free to move on. if u r worried about the naïve, spare me, spare us ur agenda, u wanna help the lost sheep u r so worried about, open ur home to those that r truly in need , I see them in rags on corners selling dollar newspapers. u wanna help? hire the homeless. online disingenuous care mongering is weak and actually predicatively predictive and honestly trite, so those of u who operate from the bottom of ur vapid vacant heart. move on, or stay, good luck and good heart to those who understand and know how to employ it, u know who u r, to the rest, see u in the funny papers under canceled.
take care Pat, hang on to ur limbs, they r very handy (oh my, puns) . truly Pat my best to u and urs.
Race
Great stuff Race!
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